Is it normal? Common questions about toys
Plenty of people have the same questions. Here are some straightforward answers.
Is it normal to use sex toys?
Yes. Many adults use them, alone or with a partner. There is no right or wrong reason.
Will a toy replace my partner?
Most people use toys to add to their sex life, not replace anyone. Talking openly helps. See our couples guide.
How do I know what I will like?
Start with a small, simple toy and see how it feels. Our first toy guide and first vibrator guide can help.
Do I need lube?
Not always, but many people like it. See our lube guide.
How often should I clean my toy?
Before and after every use. See our cleaning guide.
Can I share a toy?
It is safer to use a condom on it and change it between partners, and to wash it between uses.
How long can I use a toy?
There is no set time, but stop if you feel sore or uncomfortable. Rings and other worn toys need extra care, so follow the guidance on each page.
How do I get privacy?
See our storage guide.
When should I see a doctor?
If you have pain, bleeding, an allergic reaction or any concern that does not go away, speak to your GP or a sexual health clinic.
General information only, not medical advice.