Choosing your first toy

Starting out should feel exciting, not overwhelming. A few simple questions will point you in the right direction.

1. What do you want to try?

Think about what sounds appealing: realistic shapes, vibration, hands-free use, or something more fantasy-style. There's no wrong answer.

2. Start with the size that feels comfortable

Many of our toys come in several sizes. If you're unsure, begin with a smaller size. You can always go up later.

3. Check the material

Soft silicone is a popular choice because it feels natural and is easy to clean. Each product page lists what it's made of.

4. Think about features

• Suction cup: for hands-free use on smooth surfaces.
• Vibration or thrusting: adds movement without any effort.
• Remote control: change settings without reaching for the toy.

5. Don't forget the lube

Read our lube guide to pick the right one.

Still not sure? Get in touch.