Couples' toys and games for beginners
Trying something new together can be fun. The key is to talk first, go at your own pace and keep it light.
Start with a conversation
- Choose a relaxed moment, not in the middle of sex.
- Share what you are curious about and ask what your partner would like.
- Agree on a word or signal that means stop.
- It is fine to say no or change your mind at any point.
Easy ideas
- Remote and app toys: one partner controls the other. See remote and app controlled toys.
- Vibrating rings: add sensation for both of you. See our cock ring guide.
- Games and dice: a playful way to start. See games and accessories.
- Position cushions: support for comfort.
- Light bondage: read bondage basics first.
Keep it comfortable
- Use lube if you want extra glide. See our lube guide.
- Wash toys between users and use a condom on a toy if you share it between partners.
- Check in with each other during and after.
General information only, not medical advice.